If only it were that easy, sign up for a dating site and get a date, presto, instantly, pow! Dating sites do make singles life easier compared to walking down the retail strip wondering which women and men are single. If they are on the dating site, you know they are single. Here are 10 dating site secrets to success. Secrets that will make your dating site experience, even easier.

1. Don’t just try one site, try two. If you really want to try a local site go ahead, but also try one of the best dating sites. Specialty site and best dating site combinations apply here as well.
2. Pick a screen name that says YOU.  Add numbers 2, 4, 01, 1111 or other characters to help you make the initial impression you would like. Fun2BWith or BlueEyes25 get the message across.
3. Post multiple pictures as soon as possible. Most dating site members select “show members with pictures only” for searches. One head shot, one head-to-toe picture, and as many others as you can involving your favorite activities (book reading, skiing, hiking, biking, etc).
4. Take every available compatibility test. While everyone wants to find a date fast, it’s in your best interest to take compatibility tests. You will learn more about yourself, and of course you would like to improve upon your last failed relationship.
5. Write an honest profile. If 100% of the people read your profile and email you, you will waste your time. Along with your compatibility test, your profile is meant to attract a good match, not just the next available woman or man online.
6. Don’t rush into a relationship. If you are fortunate enough to receive emails from several potential dates, take it slow. Ask questions online and in person on several first dates. Be careful not to upset anyone, but also be careful not to waste the opportunity to meet several women or men before making a commitment.
7. Be careful with personal information. Don’t give out your personal information such as your home address or where you work until after a successful first (or second) date. If asked repeatedly, just explain it as being safe.
8. Meet in a public place. A one hour coffee date can be much better than a planned vacation together if you have never met the person before. Keep it simple. Tell others where you are going and when to expect you back.
9. If you can’t meet face to face, try a video date using a webcam. You might need to buy a webcam to do this the first time, however, you will use it again for sure.
10. If someone rubs you the wrong way literally or figuratively, report them to the dating site. The last thing anyone wants is for bad apples to become members.

Start dating online today with a free trial membership to Yahoo Personals, Match.com or Chemistry.com, or JDate.